Veteran actor Malcolm McDowell, a name synonymous with iconic roles across a remarkable career spanning over six decades, is not only reflecting on his latest cinematic endeavor, Et Tu, but also opening the curtain on a different kind of enduring success: his marriage. At 82, McDowell recently sat down with PEOPLE to share candid insights into his more than three-decade-long union with his wife, acclaimed designer Kelley Kuhr, revealing the simple yet profound principles that have anchored their relationship since they tied the knot in 1991.
The Humble Secrets to a Lasting Hollywood Love
When pressed for the elusive “secret” to a lasting Hollywood love story, McDowell offered a refreshingly humble perspective. “You know what? Honestly, I am not an expert on relationships,” the A Clockwork Orange star confessed to PEOPLE, adding, “I wish I was.” His true belief, however, lies in fundamental respect and genuine affection for one’s partner. “I think just liking the partner you’re with is very important and just respecting,” he elaborated, emphasizing his profound gratitude: “I am very lucky in that department.”
Kelley Kuhr: A Brilliant Designer Forging Her Own Masterpiece
McDowell speaks with immense pride about Kuhr, describing her as a “brilliant designer.” He highlighted her current ambitious project: “At the moment, she’s doing this house in Mexico, which is her masterpiece. It’s an amazing thing that she’s done and I’m so proud of her.” Though their professional worlds diverge – McDowell in film and Kuhr in design – he expressed admiration for her distinct success. “She doesn’t do what I do, but she’s just as successful in her own way and I’m in awe of what she does. It’s amazing. I don’t know how she does it, but she does it.”
A Shared Passion: Hunting for Treasures in Antique Shops
Despite their differing careers, a significant bond for the couple lies in their shared passions, particularly a love for collecting. “We collect stuff,” McDowell noted, adding, “and we pretty much collect and like the same stuff, which is lucky.” This shared hobby frequently leads them on joyful expeditions. “We always have fun wherever we go,” the Hollywood veteran explained, “always straight to the antique shops and hunting around and having fun that way. It’s great.” This common interest fosters connection and enjoyment, a bedrock for their enduring partnership.
A Growing Family: Five Children and Four Granddaughters
Beyond their personal dynamic, the McDowells navigate a bustling family life. With Kelley, Malcolm shares three sons: Beckett, 21; Finn, 18; and Seamus, 16. His family tree extends further to include two children from his previous marriage to actress Mary Steenburgen: daughter Lilly, 44, and son Charlie, 42. Adding another layer of joy to their lives are his four granddaughters.
Most recently, the family celebrated the arrival of a new member: granddaughter Tove, born to his son Charlie and his wife, actress Lily Collins. The couple announced Tove’s arrival via surrogate in January, bringing a “gorgeous” new presence into McDowell’s world. “She’s absolutely gorgeous,” he beamed to PEOPLE, “Absolutely beautiful.”
Reflecting on his role as a grandfather, McDowell shared his delight in observing the unique personalities of his granddaughters. “I love being around them and just watching the antics that go on and the dynamic and the difference between them all. It’s staggering,” he remarked. “They’re so different in personality and everything. It’s just beautiful to watch.”
A Legacy of Love and Art
As Et Tu becomes available to stream and purchase, McDowell’s interview provides a poignant reminder that while his professional legacy is vast and varied, his personal life, particularly his marriage to Kelley Kuhr, stands as a testament to the enduring power of respect, shared interests, and profound affection. It’s a Hollywood love story built not on grand pronouncements, but on the quiet, consistent appreciation of a truly “lucky” connection.
